Reviewed by the legal team at Estey & Bomberger, LLP · Updated November 14, 2026
What to do right now
If your child is in danger right now, call 911. For a mental health crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) any time, day or night.
Sextortion is when someone tricks or pressures a young person into sharing private images, then threatens to share them unless the child sends money, more images, or something else. It often moves very fast, and it can make kids feel trapped and ashamed. If your child has come to you, tell them you love them and that they did the right thing.
Steps to take now:
- Do not pay or send anything. Paying rarely stops the threats and often leads to more demands.
- Stop responding to the person, but do not delete the account or messages yet.
- Save evidence: screenshots of usernames, profiles, and messages. Do not save or forward the images themselves.
- Report to NCMEC's CyberTipline at report.cybertip.org or 1-800-843-5678.
- Report to the FBI at tips.fbi.gov.
- Use NCMEC's "Take It Down" tool to help remove or block images of minors from participating platforms.
It is not your child's fault
Sextortion is a crime committed by adults, often organized groups, who target young people on purpose. Offenders may pose as a teen of the same age, build trust quickly, and then turn threatening within minutes or hours. Kids who are targeted often feel intense shame and fear. Some feel there is no way out.
Please stay close to your child and watch for signs of hopelessness. Remind them that this can be stopped, that they are not in trouble, and that you are on their side. If they talk about hurting themselves, call or text 988 right away, and see our page on suicidal thoughts.
How app design is alleged to enable sextortion
Families and advocates have raised concerns that social media apps make it too easy for strangers to find and contact children. Claims in the social media litigation focus on features such as:
- Direct messaging that allows adults to reach minors
- Weak age verification, which lets young children join and lets adults pose as teens
- Friend and follower suggestions that may connect strangers with kids
- Disappearing or private messages that make abuse harder for parents to see
- Weak parental controls and slow responses to reports
Sextortion often starts on one app and moves to another, such as Instagram or Snapchat. We review claims involving TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat, YouTube, and Facebook. Learn more about how these apps are designed on our how TikTok addicts kids page.
Evidence to keep
- Screenshots of the offender's username, profile, and messages
- Any payment requests or payment records
- Your report numbers from NCMEC and the FBI
- Records of any counseling or medical care afterward
- Your child's account information for each app involved
Never save, copy, or share the images themselves, even as evidence. Law enforcement will handle that. Our save evidence guide has more tips.
How a legal claim may help
A civil claim is separate from any criminal case against the offender. It may seek to hold a platform responsible for design choices that, families allege, put children within reach of predators. A claim may seek costs for counseling, psychiatric care, and future treatment, along with damages for the fear and emotional harm your child has suffered. No outcome is guaranteed.
Federal social media cases are consolidated in MDL No. 3047. Our TikTok addiction lawsuit page explains how the litigation works.
Confidential help from Estey & Bomberger
We handle these cases with great care and privacy. Your review is free and confidential, and you pay nothing unless we win. We can meet remotely or come to you, anywhere in the country. Request a free, private case review.
Frequently Asked Questions
Should we pay the person to make it stop?
No. Paying usually leads to more demands. Stop responding, save evidence, and report to NCMEC and the FBI.
Will my child get in trouble for sending images?
Your child is the victim. NCMEC and law enforcement treat children in these situations as victims of a crime.
Can the images be removed?
NCMEC's "Take It Down" tool can help remove or prevent the spread of images of minors on participating platforms. You can also report the content directly to each app.
Can we sue the app if the offender is never caught?
Possibly. A civil claim against a platform focuses on the platform's own design and warnings, not only on the offender. We can review your situation.
Will our case be kept private?
Yes, our conversations are confidential. Courts often allow minors in these cases to use initials or pseudonyms.
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